Wednesday, February 24, 2010

My mother and I

My mother and I”

When I think about our bond, then I have to notice that it is very strong. She is like a best friend to me, we can say everything to each other, she is always there with advice or help when I need it. I really look up for her and I hope I will become such a great mother as her. In this essay I will talk about the similarities and differences in our personality.

When I talk about the similarities between my mother and I, it is notable that I have her warm personality. We both like to give people advice and help. We are interested in people’s behavior and like to analyze other’s people personality. I strongly believe that this is the reason why I am so excited to study psychology at the university. To my mind, we have both a strong EQ and we can be proud of it!

On the other hand, my mother and I have also differences such as we have a total different opinion about taking risks in life; I mean, she is more cautious in life while I am more impulsive and do things without thinking. She always has to consider the things twice before moving on. Secondly, she cares more about the details. For example, if we have to do something for school I would definitely be finished earlier then her, because I see more the big lines instead of take every detail into account.

To conclude this essay, it is notable that my mother and I are not exactly the same but this is good because now we can complete each other in different ways. I am so glad to have a few personality traces from her, she is such a great person. To put it in a nutshell, I wouldn’t change my mother for any money in the world. I believe that people become what they are through the persons around them, I would have never become the way I am now without her.

Thursday, February 4, 2010

High heels or flat shoes?

It is a fact that fashion has become very important for young people. They want to be accepted by others; girls and women are looking for success and attention from boys. Shoes make a big part of this whole idea of fashion. But, what if we just want to wear shoes for the comfort of it? Are there any advantages in wearing flat shoes? Are you not fashionable anymore if you wear them? In this essay I will compare these two different types of shoes in order to make you aware and convince you to change more often between flat and high heel shoes.

When we talk about flat and high heel shoes, we’re all convinced that they both can be very beautiful, they are both telling something more about women’s personality, and they also make our outfit unique. I strongly believe that wearing the same clothes is easier than wearing the same shoes, I mean, they are more specific. Shoes are like women’s children, unique and so important. It’s a fact that they both protect our feet, so it’s important to care of them. They are part of our daily life, from going to school to going for a party or climbing a mountain.

Now I would like to tell you something more about the differences between these two types of shoes. I agree that high heel shoes give women confidence. They can make them taller, sexier, more attractive… But there are also disadvantages when wearing them. For instance, they are not always comfortable. Everybody knows the feeling to walk hours on heels and be happy to take them off as soon as possible. Some problems can be caused by wearing heels, for example, back and feet problems. Flat shoes are sometimes less sexy and less attractive, but they are comfortable. You can dance on them without hurting your feet, and in case you have a short boyfriend they are very useful!

Taking everything into account, it comes down to a personal choice to wear high heels or flat shoes. We all know that shoes are no longer just simply worn to protect or feet, they are a passion, one’s personal statement, a sexual independence. In my opinion we have to change often between these two kinds of shoes. Keep your high heels for something special and enjoy the comfort of flat shoes during work, sports, shopping days…